Thursday, July 15, 2010

A different point of view

A different point of view towards many things . Many people have ask me what had happen to me for these past few weeks , well thanks for young concern 1st . It`s actually about my mother , she is sick & very sick this time till she is unable to work . She had breast cancer which is stage 2 . I am very worry about her . I hope she`s fine . So now nobody is supporting this family except for my bro & sis . So I am trying to save as much money as possible so that the money is well- spend and not spend simply . And for the girls out there please do go check to avoid the same situation like my mom . Thank you . This have make me realize a lot of things in life & we should always appreciate with the things we have & take really good care of them . I am very worried about my mom but i hope everything is gonna be okay . That`s all .

Friday, July 2, 2010

Something to share

I suddenly remember it was this year chinese new year where I went to my aunt house for gathering . After eating lunch together with all of my aunt , uncle & cousins my father and I sit down at the sofa and rest for a while . After that , my cousin a kinda successful mechanical engineer come and talk to us . He was saying that my father can be very happy already because all of his sons & daughter have went to Universities . Then my father reply and say a lot of people already went to university nowadays . Then my cousin reply ya it`s true also but you need to know there are even more people out there that do not attend university before so be glad that you have been to university & make great use of it . After I hear this statement from my cousin I decided it is really true and all my perspective towards many things has change and I can feel it to . I also had learn a very important advice from an article i read . It goes like this do not let your emotions control you , you must control your emoticons instead . If you let your emotions control you then you are stupid because it makes your whole day go wrong due to your failure to control your emotions .One more thing , my best friend told me d if you are being too polite with people , people will have pressure towards you . When they speak with you they will be careful when talking with you hence , sometimes if you want to find friends sometimes you don`t need to be too polite with the guy . Well don`t get me wrong I did not say that you should not have polite with you when you are making friends . Eventually , what I really mean is don`t too over polite when you are making friend this will make the situation even worse then you expected to be .