I suddenly remember it was this year chinese new year where I went to my aunt house for gathering . After eating lunch together with all of my aunt , uncle & cousins my father and I sit down at the sofa and rest for a while . After that , my cousin a kinda successful mechanical engineer come and talk to us . He was saying that my father can be very happy already because all of his sons & daughter have went to Universities . Then my father reply and say a lot of people already went to university nowadays . Then my cousin reply ya it`s true also but you need to know there are even more people out there that do not attend university before so be glad that you have been to university & make great use of it . After I hear this statement from my cousin I decided it is really true and all my perspective towards many things has change and I can feel it to . I also had learn a very important advice from an article i read . It goes like this do not let your emotions control you , you must control your emoticons instead . If you let your emotions control you then you are stupid because it makes your whole day go wrong due to your failure to control your emotions .One more thing , my best friend told me d if you are being too polite with people , people will have pressure towards you . When they speak with you they will be careful when talking with you hence , sometimes if you want to find friends sometimes you don`t need to be too polite with the guy . Well don`t get me wrong I did not say that you should not have polite with you when you are making friends . Eventually , what I really mean is don`t too over polite when you are making friend this will make the situation even worse then you expected to be .